How to know when you are ready to Marry

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How to know when you are ready to Marry

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Bible texts:
Ephesians 5:28-33
Matthew 5:43-48
Ephesians 5:15-21
If your marriage is going to work you have to fix your character (work on your character)
It is like a shadow, it will show, it will follow you.

Change your own behaviour
Stop focussing on finding the right person
Start focussing on being the right person.

Marriage is a character refiner


If you are single
Be sure on what is attracting you to the opposite sex
- Change your thinking = your attraction and emotion will change
- Your feelings / emotions can change= you can programme them

Reprogramme yourself according to God’s standard !!

 Let that person be in Christ
 Character
 Compatibility
- Do we have similarity of values
- Can we work together
- There must be similar in values
- What do we believe? Are we on the same page in our beliefs?
- What are your dreams?
 Companionship

"As believers, we are called to model our behaviour toward others on God’s forgiveness and grace toward us. We are to imitate God! (Compare Matt. 5:43-48.)"
"Instead, believers are to turn from the darkness of their past and “walk as children of light” (Eph. 5:8-10), mimicking the Father’s love. Again, Paul warns us away from “works of darkness” done “in secret” (Eph. 5:11, 12). By contrast, we are to live in the light of Christ (Eph. 5:13, 14). Rather than wasting our lives in drunkenness, we will be “redeeming the time” by offering thanks to God for His love (see Eph. 5:15-21)."
"Paul extends his theme of imitating God’s love as he advises Christian husbands and wives. Christ’s self-sacrificing love for the church becomes the model for Christian husbands (Eph. 5:25-33), while the loyalty of the church toward Christ becomes the model for Christian wives (Eph. 5:22-24). Rather than using the gift of human sexuality in a debauched and selfish way, a Christian husband and wife focus on valuing and treasuring each other, becoming “one flesh” (Eph. 5:28-33)."

We Are Recipients And Givers Of Grace

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